these are the appearance-related things I would tell me:
1. If you stop brushing your hair back into a ponytail (the key word here being brushing, not ponytail), you won't get those flyaways by your ears.
2. Your teeth after braces rock as much you think they will!
3. Your weight is appropriate.
4. Yes, there is a way to have a higher success rate with wearing your hair curly. Once you figure out the trick, it's faster, less stressful, more consistent, looks better on the second day, and looks more flattering on you - all of those things compared to both how you're doing it now and straight hair. Maybe that's why you were born with it. :)
5. What Alyssa Priest told you about blush is true.
6. I'm glad it didn't bother you when that person told you to get those above-your-eye bumps removed. You were right - people don't really notice them, and they don't bother you when you do your makeup or start dating like that person warned they might.
7. Slip shorts are not just a dream! They're real! and pretty inexpensive!! Buy some. They will make skirt-wearing much more comfortable (especially with heels), just like you imagined they could.
8. People you don't even know will tell you you can pull off red lipstick. Use that information however you want.
9. Hair stylists will tell you that bangs flatter your face. That's true, but also be aware that you usually hate having them in your face. Don't cut them so short you can't pin them back.
10. It sounds cheesy, but you will learn a lot from watching "What Not to Wear."
11. Don't waste time on cheap eyeliner pencils. Go straight to Maybelline Define-A-Line (which is also pretty cheap).
"Are you planning to follow a career in Magical Law, Miss Granger?" asked Scrimgeour.
"No, I'm not," retorted Hermione. "I'm hoping to do some good in the world!"
We went to California! It was my first time ever being there and was so fun! We went with some friends who had a conference going on and were only there for a couple days, but Joel and I both loved it and want to go back sometime.
The first day there was a hiccup with the rental car, so we hung out around the hotel. Going for walks, swimming in the hotel, taking naps, eating microwave burritos, finding out my Smiths card worked in California... it was awesome. :)
Day 2 featured Olvera Street, the California Science Center, and deeeelicious tacos with jamaica (horchata for Joel).
And the star of Day 3 was the beach! We only got to be there for a couple hours, but we loved it. I did some research as to which beach in the Los Angeles area would be clean and not too busy, and Seal Beach was everything people online promised. California beaches are also different from the ones I'm used to, so that was interesting. I'd never seen a lifeguard hut on a beach before. :)
See you later, LA! We'd like to come back and visit again sometime. :)
"I'm nearly done, I'm just waiting for the rest of your underpants to come out of the wash, Ron -"
Ron's splutter was interrupted by the opening of a door on the first-floor landing.
1 unbaked 9" pie crust (I always use a frozen store-bought one)
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup packed brown sugar
3/4 cup (1 1/2 sticks) butter, softened
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips (I'm a slave to milk chocolate.)
optional: 1 cup chopped nuts (mmmmmm, pecans)
Preheat oven to 325. Beat eggs in large bowl on high speed until foamy. Beat in flour and sugars. Beat in butter. Stir in chocolate chips and nuts. Pour into shell and bake 55-60 minutes (or until knife inserted halfway between edge and center comes out clean). Cool at least a little before eating, and then try not to devour the whole pie in one sitting.
"This isn't your average book," said Ron. "It's pure gold: Twelve Fail-Safe Ways to Charm Witches. If only I'd had this last year I'd have known exactly how to get rid of Lavender and I would've known how to get going with... Well, Fred and George gave me a copy, and I've learned a lot."
Ok, most of the previous months had more than one goal, so it's not actually the seventh one. Oh well. :)
1. Go on dates with Joel (not just stay-home dates)
2. Learn to love (and hopefully be good at) my new calling - being Primary chorister
Go on dates with Joel (not just stay-home dates)
Joel and I have a great marriage. We like staying home, and most of the time, splitting a cake-in-a-mug and watching a movie are a good-enough date for both of us. I like to leave home, too, though! and sometimes I get bored of staying home with the same routine. In the past, we've had a budget for eating out and a budget for other dates, but we almost never used the "other dates" budget. This month, I combined and lowered the budgets to be more realistic and we set a rule - we had to use all the date money! It was fun! We still used a lot of it for eating out, but we ate at more fun + new places. I picked Joel up from work one day for a middle-of-the-week lunch date at a new place. We went to a Young Entrepreneur fair and loved spending $3 for (fill in the blank) because it came from our date fund and was for that! I want to keep this up, moving away from eating out with most of the money. There are a lot of fun things to do around here! Having a date budget keeps me from feeling guilty about spending money on things that logically feel "frivolous" things but are fun, like eating at a restaurant nicer than Wendy's or going bowling. :)
Learn to love (and hopefully be good at) being Primary chorister
When I got this calling at the end of June, I didn't want it. I didn't want to leave my old calling, and I didn't believe I had time for something new. If I had to have something new, I didn't want this - it just seemed so hard with a lot of planning. Being positive about it seemed like a good goal, all things considered. Thankfully, I had a pretty great resource to call! My mom's been her ward's Primary chorister forEVER, and she loves it. So I called her immediately in hopes of getting pumped up. She gave me a lot of great ideas, but I was still ner. vous! When my first Sunday rolled around, I prayed that it would go perfectly. "I know it won't always be perfect. I know there will be some really hard days, just like with teaching. But please let the first day be perfect so I won't feel so nervous from now on." And it *was* perfect. Heavenly Father is merciful.
I've only had a couple other weeks since then, and there have definitely been times (and days) when I felt overwhelmed with this calling. It's not a ton of hard work, but it's work I'm not used to. For most of the month, I never felt caught up. It felt like people were always asking me to get things done sooner, be more ahead, give more people your early-made lesson plans. But I think I'm finally starting to come out on top with the planning. As far as the presentation goes, well, that's always fun. :) I'll get closer to this goal as I start to feel more comfortable with the expectations, but it sure made my first month go better! Attitude makes a big difference!
“Are you threatening me, sir?” he said, so loudly that passersby actually turned to stare.
“Yes, I am,” said Mad-Eye, who seemed rather pleased that Uncle Vernon had grasped this fact so quickly.
I know what you all are thinking. "Alison hasn't posted anything about her resolution since she was complaining about having too many goals in May... She must have given up like the rest of the world." Wrong! Guess again! I've been just as diligent as ever (just less diligent about writing about my diligence). Here we go!
As some of you may recall, my initial goal in May was to try doing all the goals from the previous months. I wanted to make them more firm habits. Well, I was over my head, what with school ending, so I decided my new goal for May was to finish the school year with grace. Good news there! Things were crazy and hard, and I didn't get much done outside of school, but everything I wanted to accomplish *in* school, I did, and I'm really happy with how it went. Did I tell you about the ten kids who spontaneously showed up in my classroom to help me clean it an hour before my checkout appointment with the janitor? They were wonderfully amazing, I love them, and Heavenly Father is merciful. And thus ended Month 5.
I was out of town for almost the whole month spending time with my family, so my goal was a little different in June. Habits I develop on vacation don't tend to stick around when the vacation ends - life is so different, the goals don't carry over very well. I flew home and then drove with my family to my grandma's house to help her clean some stuff out and have the world's biggest garage sale. :)
I had two goals for June:
1. Enjoy every minute with my family as much as possible (and not spend my mental energy missing Joel, who was a peach to let me be gone so long).
2. Strengthen my relationships with them, especially focusing on my younger sisters. They were who I'd be spending the most time with + one was leaving on an 18-month mission soon + the other is starting college soon + they've always been who I've had to watch my tone around the most, so it made sense to try to make the most of our time together!
Basically, I wanted to avoid arguments, judging, and Facebook (ie, not being present), and be helpful. :)
Man! Focusing on thinking before speaking makes a difference! There were many instances where thinking first came in extremely handy, and a couple where I was almost physically biting my tongue to keep negative comments inside. It worked! Peace and harmony abounded. :) It was an AWESOME trip, and I am extremely happy with how both of my goals turned out.
Stay tuned for July!
“He somehow could not find words to tell them what it meant to him,