When you become a mom, you learn the phrase "play date." What is a play date, you might ask? Just what it sounds like - a set time for 2+ kids to get together and play. Parents call / text other parents and set up times for their kids to play with each other.
Every time play dates come up in conversation, part of my brain does a little freak-out and thinks, "Play dates. This is so dumb. My mom didn't set up play dates for us. We just went to our friends' houses!" (or called them, which can be weird now because so few friends have home phones.) Let's be clear - my mom did set up play dates if the friends lived far enough away that we needed a car to get there. But if you lived in the neighborhood, we usually just showed up.
I get that the world is a different place now. People are busier with sports, dance, gymnastics, and other classes; more paranoid about kids walking around alone; and often more involved in their children's lives. But that doesn't mean I don't wish I could say, "I don't know if your friend can play, go knock on his door and find out."
But watch out, world! We're bringing it back. Spontaneous playing, I mean. Meaning, if you've ever told me, "Stop by anytime!" I just might. We've already done it to a few of you. We'll come at a normal time of day. We'll probably stay an hour or less so we don't accidentally become rude. Maybe we'll bring donuts, like we did today. Maybe you won't be home or you'll be in pajamas, like also happened today. I'll probably apologize because I'm afraid some of you will think I'm rude instead of awesome. But someday when we're feeling bored and ready to play, don't be surprised if you get a knock on your door! If you don't want to play or you're busy, tell us so (or just don't open the door). No hurt feelings. I get that people are busy. But I also know that we're not the only ones who sometimes need a spontaneous change of routine. And who knows! After we leave, you might just go buy your own pack of UNO cards and start taking it around the neighborhood. :)
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For it so falls out, that what we have we prize not to the worth whiles we enjoy it; but being lacked and lost, why, then we rack the value, then we find the virtue that possession would not show us while it was ours.
Much Ado About Nothing, William Shakespeare